Thursday, August 27, 2009

He's here!

Wow, I wasn't planning on writing this post for a few more months, in fact, we haven't decided on a name for him yet so I wasn't even planning on updating this until we did, but I'm sitting here bored in the hospital and decided you'd probably all like to know what happened, even if you don't know who I'm talking about! Our little baby boy #2 arrived this Tuesday, August 25 at 4:38 pm! He is darling and tiny (actually big for being born at 31 weeks - 3 lbs. 11 oz.) and makes cute little squeaks... and was quite a surprise! Tuesday morning Jonathan, Easton and I went to pick up the car (since someone backed into it last week and the door had to be replaced) and then went to breakfast. This is how the rest of the day went:
9am- occasional pains, nothing too serious
11:30- Jonathan left for work, more-often occasional pains, but still not super painful
2- Put Easton down for a nap then laid on the couch to take a nap myself but couldn't since for the next hour my stomach hurt every 5-6 minutes. Hmmm...
3- Called Dr's office and left a voicemail for the nurse asking if I should be concerned. I still wasn't too worried because it didn't feel like a contraction to me so I thought it must be something else.
3:15- Got a call back telling me to come get checked just in case, although it may just be intestinal; called Jonathan and asked him to come home from work to take me to get checked because the pains were starting to hurt into my back
3:20- Bearing down pains start!
(I'm trying to forget the time period in between here)
3:55- Jonathan walks in the door to a screaming wife and Easton crying because Mom won't pick him up.
4- We hop on a busy freeway in Washington, DC during rush hour traffic, but luckily it's not for too long
4:20- We pull up to valet parking and a security guard wheels me up to labor and delivery where I immediately scream to everyone that I am having a baby RIGHT NOW!
4:22- 5 nurses are rushing all over and find out that I am completely dilated and ready to go, but they think the baby is breech so I have to wait for the doctor. Are you kidding me?
4:28- Doctor arrives and confirms that the baby is breech so we need to go to the operating room
4:30- In the operating room, we're waiting for anesthia whom of course nobody can find so they finally just slap a gas mask on me to knock me out since I'd been begging for an epidural since I got there and all anyone keeps telling me is not to push the baby out yet
4:38- Our little guy is born... apparently. Not that we had any idea because I was unconscious and Jonathan had gone down to registration as soon as we got to the hospital. He said when he made it up they told him congratulations as they were wheeling the baby to the NICU.
So that's the story! Now our October baby has ended up being an August baby and instead of moving home this weekend like we had planned we'll be staying out here in Virginia for about 6 weeks. We thought we would be able to renew the lease on our apartment since it was supposed to be up Monday, but we can't so it looks like we'll be staying at the Ronald McDonald house here by the hospital. Since I had a C-section, I can't really lift Easton at all and can't do a whole lot of anything yet, so my mom took a medical leave of absence from work and she's going to stay with us for a while to help out with him until I've recovered enough to take care of him. Our ward has been so nice and people have been offering help with everything and bringing meals over. It's kind of crazy how fast all of our plans and everything have changed, but everything happens for a reason and I'm sure it's the same with this. I was feeling pretty down last night about not knowing where we were going to stay and living out here away from everyone for another month and half and not being able to be with the baby, but Jonathan talked to me about how everything has a purpose and this is just another trial we have to go through and that he feels like everything is going to work out just fine and we'll be stronger for it. I'm so lucky to have him, especially to help me keep focused on what's really important during this time. The baby is doing well and they're happy with his progress and I'm so grateful he is being taken care of. I'm so happy to have him and Easton and now to have a place to stay and my mom to help us out. I'm doing good and got to experience a natural labor like I always wanted to, minus the best part which is when the baby comes out :). My labor nurse told me that I just about got to have a natural c-section too, but they realized they were going to have to pump my stomach first so they decided to give me some gas. Overall it was a crazy experience that seems to keep getting crazier with little surprises and changes of plan, but if this is what we have to do to get little whatever-his-name-is here then I guess we'll take it!

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

OH MY GOODNESS!!!! I am so happy and surprised for you guys! It seems like you just told us you were pregnant. I can't believe he came so fast! You are an amazing woman to go through so much. Easton came a little early too, right? Just not THAT early! I hope he is doing ok. I wish I could be there to help out with anything. I am so sorry you feel so lost and like life threw you a curve ball. But, what a blessing to have a healthy baby, mommy, and family through all of this. Congratulations and keep us updated with a name, how he is doing, and how you are doing!

Emily and Ryan said...

We wish you the best of luck! You are both so positive! That is such a surprise! Well we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Janaca said...

That is an AMAZING story. I'm glad you were able to make it to the hospital in time and that he is here and doing well! I can't imagine going through all of that so I hope you are doing ok. Good luck with everything and way to keep an eternal perspective!

Jacque said...

Linsi! I am so happy he is doing well! What a brave girl you are! Keep up on the pain killers! Congrats!
Jacque

Nicole said...

oh my gosh!!!!!! Lins, that is ONE incredible story!!! holy cow, congratulations!!! I hope you guys continue to do well. 3 lbs! What a tiny guy!! Make sure to post pictures as soon as you can! I'll sure be thinking of you!

MANDY OLSEN said...

Wow! We are glad to hear that everything is going well. You will be in our prayers!

Tannie Datwyler said...

That is just about the craziest story I've heard. I am so amazed at how fast it went!! I hope your little guy is okay - 9 weeks early is a bit scary. I will keep you in my prayers

Unknown said...

I can't believe he is here! I wish we were still out there to help out but I'm glad your mom and sister are out there. We can't wait until you get home and we can see you guys! Taylee asks for E everyday.

The Holt's said...

I bet you were shocked to have your little guy so early. My son came at 31 wks as well. I had pre-eclampsia. He was 2 lbs, 12 oz. He stayed in the NICU for 5 wks and then came home. That was sure a difficult time. If you have any questions about what we went through, let me know! Good luck with everything! You are in our families thoughts and prayers!

Aubrey said...

When I heard from Grandma I was so scared and nervous for you. Since my due date is one day after your I was a little scared for me too. Wow what a day. Well, Congratulations and hope everything goes well. Can't wait to see you and the new baby when he gets here.

Unknown said...

Linsi, Your family is SO cute!! I saw your comment on facebook and decided to check out your blog. I hope you don't mind. Sounds like you guys had a big surprise!! I am glad both you and the baby is doing good and that everything is working out for you guys. Good luck with everything and I will keep your family in my prayers!

marci and josh said...

Congrats on the new baby boy, even though he came early. I hope you are feeling well, and that baby boy is doing well. Gillian was over 3lbs at 29 weeks, and now she is six and doing so well. Your little guy will do great too. The next few weeks will be hard, but at least he is where he can be taken care of. Good luck! Keep us updated!

Heather said...

So Crazy! I'm glad that everything is going well thus far. When Carter was born we didn't have a name for him either. Good luck with picking one. the hardest part of the c-section is not being able to pick up your toddler. Keely didn't like it to much. I hope Easton takes it okay. Love you all!

Jennifer said...

I saw the picture of your new baby boy on facebook and I had to read about your experience. I'm glad you put your blog address on there. I am so glad everything worked out! I can't beleive how tiny he is! Your family is so cute!
Jennifer (Parker) Jensen

Hazlett Family said...

Hey lins congrats on the little guy. You guys have been in our thoughts and prayers. Keep it easy and enjoy your little one.

The Holt's said...

Your baby is HUGE for 31 weeks. That's really good. He'll probably make good progress. My best advice for you would be to get a primary nurse, or set of nurses. That way you'll have the same nurse watching over him whenever he/she is working. That was really helpful for us, because we could know what to expect. The other piece of advice I have is to expect the unexpected. It seemed like we would be having a string of good days and Jackson would do almost everything he needed to come home. Then suddenly, something would change and we'd have to start all over (he actually turned blue when I was holding him). It was really scary! Try to be patient, and try to be positive. While you are going through it, you'll feel like it will NEVER end. But it will! And then you'll miss when he was tiny.

Oh yeah, about coming home....Jackson was my first, so I really didn't know what to expect. He came home on oxygen. That was an adjustment (mostly his monitor was the worst part). You can do whatever is needed! You are strong!!

Feel free to e-mail me (kristieholt@gmail.com) if you have any more questions. I would love to tell you anything that can help. It was always helpful for us to talk to other parents that had survived!!!

Good luck and keep me posted! We are praying for you guys!

Amber Penrod said...

Linsi!!! Wow, I couldnt believe that story! You are such a strong girl. Im glad that everything turned out well...I couldnt stop thinking about you today after I read your blog earlier. Congrats on the new baby. Good luck with everything coming up (and choosing a name:)

Pace Family said...

oh my heavens. I can't wait to see what-ever his name is as soon as you get back home. I have'nt even had a chance to talk to grandma Kathy. I hope you are all okay. Good luck and we are thinking of you guys. Lots of love, Curtis Tyra Dillan Casyn and Kamry Pace